GigaJule 2025-08-23 20:24:06

I don't know what to tell you here. Stop talking to them? Tell them that they're making you uncomfortable? I really don't know. I'm not the best with this stuff... I am sorry you have to deal with this, though. (If that means anything.)

Simoes1000 2025-08-23 21:28:35

I don't think is a good idea to stay chatting with him.

SouSTAR 2025-08-24 00:31:54

He's definitely trying to be "someone greater" because he's desperately unhappy with his life. Either he genuinely help himself (by taking care of his mental and physical health) or he just have to fucking chill out. Nobody is out to get him, but it is him who's out to get people.

He's being emotionally excited by controversial speeches and music, because these people look untouchable (they can do anything and say anything with no consequences) and it excite him. As he said, he want to be "strong", supposly to escape the emotional sadness that "weaken" him.

He try to get you in his ideas, he's testing the water. It's obvious he's sadly entering a dangerous path because of his family's situation.

I don't know how weird and dangerous he could be, it really depends on how deep he is in his distractions ( the politics and controversial music, ect...) but it's no way to live and he could take all the self defense classes, it wont make him any stronger. The weird jokes about hurting animals, it's not funny. But maybe you already told him that. He want to show you that he's strong and untouchable to impress you. He's delusional.

The thing with people like them, is that once they entered "the mud", it's difficult to get them out. Because every attempt to help them , they will see it as a way to prevent them from "getting stronger" or "greater". And then it's over, they go fully indoctrinated and might even do crimes (well, he's already doing one, with the stalking.) This is why im worried trying to help him, or talking to him when you already feel threatened by him might be a bad idea.

Im sorry you have to meet someone like this. If you can avoid him then of course do it, it's for your safety.
If you can't, try to not to speak to him too much. If you have other TRUSTED friends, tell them about him. Maybe a male friend of his can reach him out, but it would be unlikely.

Don't have pity for him. Even if it's sad, we're talking about your safety first. This guy can get very dangerous and he's already being dangerous with the stalking.
He thinks hurting people = being strong, because only strong enough people can hurt people and defend themselves, but that's false. Weak people can hurt people too, and he's being weak, avidly listening to politicians who don't care about him, instead of his friends.

There's a line between just being a edgy guy who like to provoke people, and... him.

wineplume 2025-08-24 02:23:41

perhaps the problem comes from his family. alcohol is a huge problem because people under its influence can become either really silly, really sleepy or really aggressive; in this case his drunk parents might be abusive to the both kids.
i don't really know what to do in this situation, but if someone's being too creepy then it's probably a good idea to cut contact with them.

SouSTAR 2025-08-25 01:06:55

@SnSQRS
Oh i thought he was someone you had to meet irl like a classmate, im relieved you dont actually have to meet him!

But yeah it's better that you stop interacting with him. There's nothing wrong with ignoring bad persons. Afterall, it was something he had to do too, but he chose to follow the examples of bad persons. There's plenty of people who have problems in their lives, and they dont make jokes about killing animals and stalking people.

I hope you wont have to talk to him ever again! :)